THREE sweeps is an awfully long time, OA. IT may be true that this troll still hates you, as implied by the kiss, or perhaps she has some other set of feelings tangled up in this.

EITHER way, it may be time to move on, for the both of you. ABANDONING a quadrant can be very painful, especially if you've invested a great deal of time and effort into the relationship, but there are things more painful yet. A PERPETUALLY broken spade is no laughing matter.